You were just shaped by pain that was never yours to carry.
The constant criticism. The quiet emotional neglect.
The way your mom could cut you with a glance or twist the knife with a smile.
The way your dad could be in the room but never with you.
You grew up learning to read the room before you knew how to read a book.
Becoming who everyone else needed, just to feel safe.
Now you’re the strong one. The capable one. The one who “has it all together.” But inside? You still shrink when your mother says,“You’re too sensitive. I was just trying to help.”
You still bend in relationships, twisting yourself smaller so someone will choose you, to stay with you, to love you.
You still find yourself in family conversations that leave you questioning your worth, your voice, and your sanity.
You ask yourself, “Why do I keep ending up in the same pain, no matter how much I grow?”
You’ll walk through your Gene Keys Venus Sequence, the blueprint of your emotional wounding and the map back to your wholeness.
- Feel safe in your own body
- Express your needs without guilt
- Be around your family without losing yourself
- Parent with presence instead of fear
- Attract love that feels calm, safe, and mutual
This work rewires how you relate to others, but more importantly, how you relate to yourself.
- That lump in your throat when your mom makes her usual “joke” that cuts deep
- Avoiding your partner because you don’t know how to explain what’s wrong
- Feeling guilt for setting boundaries, then resentment when you don’t
- Over explaining your feelings to avoid being seen as “too emotional”
- Attracting partners who need fixing and calling it love
- Parenting from fear, afraid of messing up or becoming your parent
- Collapsing into shame after snapping at your child and thinking,“I swore I’d never become my parents”
You’ve tried therapy. You’ve read the books. But something’s still stuck.
That’s because the pain isn’t just in your mind.
It’s in your nervous system.
It’s in your body.
It’s in your emotional DNA.
And that’s where we begin.
You’ve done the therapy. You’ve journaled. You’ve told yourself to “just let it go.”
But your mom says one thing and you spiral.
Your partner withdraws and your chest tightens with shame.
You still carry the tension, the triggers, the weight.
It’s not because you’re broken. It’s because no one showed you how to heal where the wound actually lives.
This is what the Venus Sequence reveals.
Not just what happened to you. But what you still carry. And how to release it.
This isn’t just mindset work. It's soul-level remembering.
Through our 6 sessions together, you’ll gently unravel:
- Childhood beliefs that keep you people-pleasing or self-abandoning
- Emotional patterns that replay in your relationships
- The reasons certain family members trigger you and how to stay rooted in yourself
- The grief and shame that’s never had a safe space to release
- The deeper gifts hiding beneath every wound
You won’t just learn why it happened.
You’ll feel the shift in your body, breath, and being.
Your phone rings. It’s your mom. You already know she’ll comment on your parenting or your weight or your boundaries.
But this time, you exhale. You hear the words and you don’t flinch. You don’t freeze.
You stay calm. Rooted. Present. Because you no longer need her approval to feel worthy. You’ve already claimed that for yourself.
Later that night, your partner notices you’re quiet. Instead of brushing it off, you say,
“When you shut down earlier, it brought up an old fear. I don’t need you to fix it. I just want to be honest.”
And the air shifts.
You are seen. He softens. And you don’t lose yourself to be loved.
You tuck your child in and feel peace. Not shame. Not the pressure to get it right. Just presence. Just love. Just you.
This is not a one-size-fits-all program. This is deeply personal.
It’s sacred space for your truth, your healing, and your return to self.
- Six private 1:1 sessions (online or in-person in Whitefish, Montana)
- Personalized insight into your Human Design, Venus Sequence, and Gene Keys
- Energetic clearing to help you release fear, grief, and emotional residue
- Voice messaging support between sessions so you never feel alone
- Tools and practices that support your body, nervous system, and emotional regulation
This isn’t about managing your triggers. It’s about healing what created them.
Hi, I’m Lesley. Manifesting Generator. Former yacht and jet crew.
I’ve spent decades untangling myself from childhood experiences that silenced my voice and shattered my trust. I know the ache of being the responsible one.
The good girl. The over achiever. The one who makes it look easy while carrying pain no one can see.
I found true love at 47. But more importantly, I found myself.
Now I help women feel safe in their bodies, open in their hearts, and deeply at home in themselves.
You don’t have to keep carrying what was never yours.
You’re allowed to soften.
You’re allowed to receive.
You’re allowed to be free.
If you’ve been searching for trauma-informed coaching for women, a way to heal from childhood trauma, or support with breaking generational patterns, you are in the right place.
Wake Up To You is not just another program. It’s a personalized healing experience rooted in emotional freedom, inner child work, and Gene Keys emotional awareness.
Whether you’re healing from a narcissistic mother, repeating relationship cycles, or learning how to parent differently, this journey supports deep, lasting transformation. You’ll learn how to regulate your nervous system, set healthy boundaries, and return to a place of peace, self-worth, and emotional clarity.
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